I can’t believe it. R is 6 months old! Where has the time gone to?
I can’t believe it. R is 6 months old! Where has the time gone to?
Now that I have had my ETSY shop open for a week, I am finding it difficult to think of items to make. I started with monthly milestone cards and baby milestone cards, because I had some friends that were looking for something like that. Beyond repeating those with different designs, I am at a loss on what to make.
My inspiration usually comes only when prompted. Be it a writing prompt, a request from someone for a custom design, or the need for something to fulfill a need in my home; I am not a muse of great ideas. One friend suggested that I make chalkboard signs for weddings, but looking on ETSY, there are a million (only slight exaggeration) of those already. I will go ahead and start making them, until I can think of something better. In the meantime, I will wait for more inspiration to come my way.
I guess I am not naturally a creative thinker. I follow instructions, follow the rules, and just put my own flair on things. Kind of depressing, actually. Maybe it is just the rain outside.
I have been absent from blogging recently due to some major changes in my life. I recently quit my job and decided to be a stay at home mom for a little bit. Many reasons contributed to my quitting: R not taking a bottle and being up all night, lack of support at work, and feeling like my kids need me more than my job values me are among a few of them.
For the next few months, I will be a SAHM (stay at home mom). I know that there will be an adjustment period for me and the kids, but after that, I hope to be able to decide whether I want to go back to work full-time, part-time, or at all. Right now, I am enjoying being at home with R (L is still going to preschool/daycare for the moment). I am not getting much done around the house, nor have I had much time for blogging, but I feel like R is sleeping better and in a better mood in general with me at home. I know that I am in a better mood too.
To help offset the mental stagnation of being a SAHM, and to hopefully provide some supplemental income, I have started an ETSY shop. I only have a few items listed, but the 2 sales that I have gotten so far have made me giddy with happiness. I would love to be able to make this a part-time gig for me, allowing me to stay home with the kiddos and work on my own schedule. I guess we will see if my designs are popular enough to support that. Feel free to click the image to the left and check out my shop. Any constructive feedback on current or future items would be welcome!
I don't have as many favorite shops to buy J presents at, but I do have a few. These are shops that I have previously purchased from or I have gotten wish list items from J from. Once again, I have not been compensated in any way for this post
I love the scents of their shaving products, and J loves their beard oil. I got him a sample kit of the beard oil for Christmas last year and he uses it daily. He says that it makes the skin less itchy, and I can see that it makes the hair softer and more manageable. They also have other bath/beauty products for men and women in their shop (I am eyeing the lip tints).
If you have a geek that you know and love, you have probably already found this shop. It is the best conglomeration of shirts, toys, food, and accessories that any geek or nerd would like. There is something for everyone here! I love the giant microbes, no surprise since I am a microbiologist, and J likes the cube warfare gear. I have also bought my brother many a t-shirt from here for various holidays.
J is very picky about his wallet. It has to have the right number of slots for cards, not be too thick, and fit in his pocket just right. He found this site and sent it to me as his wish list for future gift ideas. They have very high quality wallets, a little pricey, in different sizes and configurations.
Now that I am back to work full-time, after a short bout of pneumonia, I am having a hard time figuring out what my goals are. I love my children and want to be there for them, especially since schools/daycare/activities in my town seem to always end at 5pm. Being there for them is really difficult with my current hours and commute. On the other hand, I am enjoying working on my projects, having adult interaction, and bringing home a paycheck. I guess this is the dilema of every mom out there; what is the balance between what is best for me and what is best for my family.
This morning, as I was sitting on the couch feeding R, L scoots over next to me and lays his head on my shoulder.
L: I love you, Mommy.
Me: I love you too.
L: I miss you, Mommy.
Me: I miss you too, Buddy.
Enter the working mom guilt.
L has been having a hard time since I went back to work. R has been having a hard time too, but I think her issue is more that she still refuses the bottle. L got used to me being home and having energy to play with him in the evening.
Yep, slowly but surely the weight is coming back. Despite my healthy-er eating and a little exercise. (I cropped out the actual numbers, because I just don't want to share that depressing fact with the world)
Let's be honest, when do I have time to exercise? Either before the family wakes up or after the kids go to bed. That leaves me with 4 am or 10 pm. Really. I am not exaggerating. Who wants to wake up that early? I know I should have done better while on maternity leave, but there always seemed to be something more important to do. I am trying not to make excuses, but I just keep hitting bumps in the weight loss road that trip me up. I need to get better at making exercise a priority.
As you can see, I did really good for the first month that R was around, but then it started creeping back upward. No I am fighting off pneumonia and the cough is making it really hard to do any type of exercise. So, while I am waiting for my z-pack to work, I am going to mentally psych myself up for some ass-kicking in August. I have the 4th Trimester Body pictures then and I would like to feel comfortable in my body. Even if I have only lost a couple of lbs, I think that little bit will make me feel infinitely more positive.
I don't even know what to say about being back to work. I am both happy and sad about it. Happy that I am getting things done, getting a paycheck, and having adult interaction. Sad that I am missing R, not getting things done at home, and disconnected from the happenings in the office. I have to assume that every working mom feels similarly to some degree.
The biggest challenge to going back to work is R not taking a bottle. She refused every time we tried the month before going back to work, and now she is refusing at daycare. This means that she is not eating all day long; she is just waiting for me to get home. It is stressing me out. She is already quite stubborn and opinionated in her own quiet way (L is stubborn and opinionated in a much more vocal way).
So, today J is taking R to the pediatrician to get her weight checked. Since she is not eating all day, we need to make sure she is gaining weight at a proper rate still. I do not think I would be as worried if she was reverse cycling and eating more at night, but she is still sleeping good at night. I can't believe that she would be getting all of her needed calories from just eating in the evenings and morning. Well, I guess we will see what the doctor says.
Fingers crossed that she will take a bottle soon. Silver lining: I can freeze all the milk I am pumping during the day (a whopping 7 oz total per day) to use in the future.